☰

Home/Read / Source writing

← Search the writings

Tuesdays With Tony, Volume 4

The End of Death and the Way Back to God

By Tony Eldridge

From Tony’s manuscript. Original wording preserved.

View book and free download →
← Browse writingsAbout 17 min · Book section

From the very beginning, God intended for us to have life—real life. Not just the life that comes from breath in our lungs or the beating of a heart, but a life that is inseparably tied to Him. A life that is whole. Complete. Unbroken.

But something happened. Something tragic. And we are still living in the aftermath of it today.

At its core, death is separation. We don’t always think of it that way, but we experience it in every facet of life. When a person takes their final breath and their soul leaves their body, we call it death. But we also use that language in other ways. A friendship ends, and we say, “That friendship is dead.” A marriage crumbles, and we say, “That marriage died.” Even when a dream fades and we know it will never be fulfilled, we speak of it in the language of death.

Why?

Because death is always the separation of two things that were meant to be together.

And nowhere is this truth more evident than in what happened to mankind in the very beginning.

When God created Adam and Eve, He didn’t just breathe life into them and leave them to figure things out on their own. He placed them in a garden—a place of perfection, filled with everything they needed. And at the center of this garden were two trees.

“And out of the ground the LORD God made to spring up every tree that is pleasant to the sight and good for food. The tree of life was in the midst of the garden, and the tree of the knowledge of good and evil.” (Genesis 2:9 ESV).

Two trees. One represented life—eternal, unbroken, uninterrupted life in the presence of God. The other represented knowledge of good and evil, something God never intended for them to experience.

And then came the warning.

“And the LORD God commanded the man, saying, “You may surely eat of every tree of the garden,

but of the tree of the knowledge of good and evil you shall not eat, for in the day that you eat of it you shall surely die.” (Genesis 2:16-17 ESV).

Death. Separation. The great fracture.

In the garden, man was meant to live forever—physically and spiritually—because the Tree of Life was there, and God Himself walked with them. Life was not just a state of being. It was a relationship.

But when Adam and Eve disobeyed, everything changed.

When they ate from the forbidden tree, they didn’t drop dead on the spot. But something far worse happened.

They were separated from God.

Sin had entered the world, and with it came death—not just physical death, but spiritual death. The immediate consequence was exile. The man and woman who had walked with God were now banished from His presence, and the way back was blocked. They could no longer reach the Tree of Life. They had been cut off.

And from that moment forward, death reigned.

“Therefore, just as sin came into the world through one man, and death through sin, and so death spread to all men because all sinned--” (Romans 5:12 ESV).

We are born into a world where sin and death still touch all men. A world where we experience the consequences of sin all around us. A world where death, both physical and spiritual, is inevitable.

But God was not content to leave us in this state.

From the moment Adam and Eve took that fateful bite, God had a plan to restore what was lost. The rest of Scripture is the unfolding of that plan—God’s relentless pursuit of His people, His desire to bring them back to life.

But there was a problem.

Sin still stood in the way. And sin always leads to death.

God established a sacrificial system in the Old Testament, a temporary way for His people to remain in covenant with Him. Blood had to be shed because sin demanded death. But these sacrifices were never enough to permanently restore what had been lost. They were only shadows of something greater to come.

And then Jesus came.

Jesus entered a world ruled by death. And He came to destroy it.

But He didn’t do it the way people expected. He didn’t come as a conqueror waging war against Rome. He didn’t overthrow governments or armies. Instead, He allowed Himself to be killed. He suffered as our sacrifice, bearing the weight of our sins. He suffered for the sole purpose of uniting us back to the Father by laying down His life for us. His dying words were, “It is finished.” He had accomplished what was needed to provide the way back to God and to turn death into life.

And three days later, He walked out of the tomb, proving that death had been defeated.

“The last enemy to be destroyed is death.” (1 Corinthians 15:26 ESV).

Jesus’ resurrection was not just proof of His power. It was the beginning of a new creation. A new life. The way back to God had been reopened. The separation could be undone.

But here’s the thing—this victory is not automatically applied to everyone.

We are still spiritually accountable for our own sins. And if we remain in a state of spiritual death, our physical death will only finalize our separation from Him forever.

Scripture calls this the second death—the eternal separation from God for those who refuse His gift of life.

But for those who are in Christ, something incredible happens.

When we come into contact with His blood—when we die to ourselves, are buried in baptism, and raised to new life, our spiritual death is reversed. We are no longer separated from God.

Eternal life doesn’t start when we die. It starts the moment we are united with Jesus.

Paul understood this. That’s why he could say:

For to me to live is Christ, and to die is gain. (Philippians 1:21 ESV).

For the believer, death is no longer something to fear. It is merely a transition, a change of state. Our physical bodies may stop functioning, but we remain alive—fully alive—because nothing can separate us from the love of God.

But for those outside of Christ, physical death seals their fate. There is no resurrection to life, only the final, eternal separation.

One day, Jesus will return. And on that day, death itself will be destroyed.

“Then Death and Hades were thrown into the lake of fire. This is the second death, the lake of fire.” (Revelation 20:14 ESV).

The separation will be complete—those who are in Christ will be with Him forever, and those who rejected Him will face eternal separation.

Until that day, we have a choice.

To remain in death. Or to step into life.

God has done everything to bring us back. The way is open. The sacrifice has been made. The victory has been won.

All that remains is for us to accept the gift.

Because in Jesus, there is no death. Only life.


I am in the book of Exodus in my daily Bible reading. Today, I found myself in Exodus chapter 12, where God institutes the Passover. To prepare for this, the Israelites were instructed to bake their bread without leaven and to eat fully clothed, ready to move at a moment’s notice.

Why such urgency? Because God was about to act. And when He did, there would be no extra time to get ready—they needed to be prepared beforehand.

“In this manner you shall eat it: with your belt fastened, your sandals on your feet, and your staff in your hand. And you shall eat it in haste. It is the LORD’s Passover.” (Exodus 12:11 ESV).

As I reflected on this passage, my mind turned toward Jesus’ words to us, which carry a similar urgency and readiness.

“Stay dressed for action and keep your lamps burning,” (Luke 12:35 ESV).

Jesus then shares a vivid image of servants eagerly awaiting their master’s return from a wedding feast, ready to open the door the moment he knocks.

“If he comes in the second watch, or in the third, and finds them awake, blessed are those servants!” (Luke 12:38 ESV).

These two passages, though separated by centuries, share a common message for us today. Like the Israelites during that first Passover, we too must remain vigilant, spiritually alert, and ready to move when the Lord acts.

We don’t know when He will return, but He calls us to live in continual readiness, fully prepared at every moment.

“You also must be ready, for the Son of Man is coming at an hour you do not expect.” (Luke 12:40 ESV).

Let’s keep our spiritual belts fastened and our lamps burning brightly. The Lord will act, and when He does, may He find us ready.


I believe Jesus is my Savior.

But, to me, it seems more reverent to refer to myself as His servant.


I am in the book of Exodus in my daily Bible reading, reflecting on God’s foundational principles of civil law and justice. As I read, I am reminded of how deeply our Western culture, particularly the American system of justice, was shaped by these Judeo-Christian values.

God’s words to Israel were clear and uncompromising:

“You shall not pervert the justice due to your poor in his lawsuit.

Keep far from a false charge, and do not kill the innocent and righteous, for I will not acquit the wicked.

And you shall take no bribe, for a bribe blinds the clear-sighted and subverts the cause of those who are in the right.” (Exodus 23:6-8 ESV).

Considering these commands, we must ask ourselves whether our own society still honors these timeless truths. Are we committed to protecting the innocent, or have we begun to abandon justice in favor of convenience, popularity, or political agendas?

Sadly, it seems we are witnessing a troubling drift away from our moral foundations. Too often, judges side with the guilty, neglecting the cries of the innocent. Lawyers and judges grow increasingly bold in their arrogance and disregard for truth. When innocent people are sacrificed on the altar of injustice, society itself begins to crumble.

Yet, we must never imagine God is indifferent to such corruption. He explicitly warns those who judge and legislate about their sacred responsibility:

“How long will you judge unjustly and show partiality to the wicked?

Give justice to the weak and the fatherless; maintain the right of the afflicted and the destitute.

Rescue the weak and the needy; deliver them from the hand of the wicked.” (Psalm 82:2-4 ESV).

Through the prophet Isaiah, God further speaks against leaders who distort justice:

“Woe to those who decree iniquitous decrees, and the writers who keep writing oppression,

to turn aside the needy from justice and to rob the poor of my people of their right…” (Isaiah 10:1-2 ESV).

God holds every nation and every ruler accountable. He will not allow injustice to stand forever. Whether His judgment arrives swiftly or waits until the final day, we can be certain that He will set every wrong right and hold corrupt leaders accountable.

Let us therefore pray earnestly for those in authority—that their hearts would turn toward true justice, fairness, and integrity. Let us ask God to restore our commitment to protecting the innocent, upholding righteousness, and administering genuine justice.

For if we fail in this, we risk becoming indistinguishable from nations that never knew God—where justice is perverted, the innocent suffer, and corruption rules the day. What a tragedy it would be to live in a society where truth no longer matters and justice becomes a distant memory.

May God have mercy on us, and may we never stop seeking His righteousness.


I am in Exodus in my daily Bible reading. Right before we see the terrible failing of the children of Israel with the Golden Calf, we encounter something truly amazing. God blesses Israel with two uniquely gifted individuals, Bezalel and Oholiab.

God singled out these men—not because they sought glory or prominence—but because He purposed something beautiful through their hands. Listen again to these words:

“The LORD said to Moses,

‘See, I have called by name Bezalel the son of Uri, son of Hur, of the tribe of Judah,

and I have filled him with the Spirit of God, with ability and intelligence, with knowledge and all craftsmanship,

to devise artistic designs, to work in gold, silver, and bronze,

in cutting stones for setting, and in carving wood, to work in every craft.

And behold, I have appointed with him Oholiab, the son of Ahisamach, of the tribe of Dan. And I have given to all able men ability, that they may make all that I have commanded you.’” (Exodus 31:1-6 ESV).

Think about the significance of this for a moment. God specifically chose these men, intentionally equipping them with remarkable talents—not for themselves, but to serve His larger purpose. They were essential in crafting a place of worship and holiness, bringing beauty, dignity, and reverence to Israel’s relationship with their God.

Yet, isn’t this precisely what God still does among us today? Just as He shaped Bezalel and Oholiab for particular roles, God also carefully shapes and places each one of us exactly where we can serve Him best. Paul, inspired by the Holy Spirit, emphasizes this profound truth to the Corinthians:

“But as it is, God arranged the members in the body, each one of them, as he chose.

If all were a single member, where would the body be?

As it is, there are many parts, yet one body.” (1 Corinthians 12:18-20 ESV).

What Paul expresses is as true today as it was then. God has intentionally placed each of us—yes, including you and me—in specific roles within His church, providing each of us unique gifts, abilities, and even passions. When we embrace our giftedness and fulfill our calling, the entire body is strengthened and God is glorified.

Too often, though, we compare our abilities to those of others. Maybe we see someone eloquently preaching, leading beautiful worship, or creating powerful ministries, and we quietly feel inadequate. Like someone gifted to play instruments might envy Bezalel’s crafting ability, we might envy those who have seemingly more visible or admired talents. But when we do this, we risk overlooking the special place God has designed specifically for us.

Paul also urges us:

“Having gifts that differ according to the grace given to us, let us use them: if prophecy, in proportion to our faith;

if service, in our serving; the one who teaches, in his teaching;

the one who exhorts, in his exhortation; the one who contributes, in generosity; the one who leads, with zeal; the one who does acts of mercy, with cheerfulness.” (Romans 12:6-8 ESV).

Can you see it? Our Lord doesn’t desire uniformity; He desires unity through diversity. Each of us brings something unique and beautiful to the kingdom. The cup of cold water shared quietly in kindness, the genuine smile and hug given to comfort someone grieving, the behind-the-scenes acts of generosity—these are all just as precious and vital to our Father as the sermons, the worship, and the public ministries. Every act of faithfulness matters deeply to God.

Consider Dorcas, a quiet servant whose gifts lay in her generosity and kindness through sewing garments for others. Her gentle deeds deeply impacted lives, and when she died, the community mourned and showed Peter all she had made (Acts 9:36-39 ESV). Or think of Barnabas, whose gift was encouragement. He came alongside Paul when no one else trusted him, setting Paul on a trajectory that changed the world (Acts 9:26-27 ESV).

What gift has God given you, specifically? Is it teaching or encouraging? Are you naturally gifted at hospitality, serving quietly behind the scenes, or organizing events? Can you sing beautifully, counsel wisely, or cheerfully lend a hand to someone in need? Whatever your gift—large or small, public or private—give it freely to God. Embrace your unique place within His story.

God is deliberate in placing us exactly where He wants us, gifting us in precisely the ways we’re needed most. Our responsibility is simply to be faithful—to offer ourselves fully to His service. When we all faithfully bring what we’ve been given, the body of Christ functions powerfully and beautifully, revealing His glory to a world desperately needing His love.

Together, let us celebrate the diverse abilities that God has placed within each one of us. Let us serve joyfully where He has positioned us. And let us never forget that it is God who designed us, chose us, and gifted us, arranging us perfectly within His family—exactly as it pleases Him.


When you hear the trumpets sounding, it’s too late to buy oil for your lamps.


For thousands of years, this was a rhetorical question:

“Does the clay say to him who forms it, ‘What are you making?’ or ‘Your work has no handles’?” (Isaiah 45:9 ESV).

But we may be the first generation brazen enough to answer it.

We say a man can become a woman, and a woman can become a man.

If we don’t like how the Potter made us, we’ll just remake ourselves.

Oh foolish generation. We may deceive our fellow man and pressure him to affirm the illusion—but on that Day, when we stand before the Potter Himself, no amount of gaslighting will affect the One who formed us from dust.


I am in the book of Lamentations in my daily Bible reading. Jeremiah, known as the weeping prophet, pours out his heart over Jerusalem’s tragic fall.

Yet, this is far more than patriotic poetry—it is a deep and powerful theological reflection. Jerusalem was not just another city. It was the City of God, the one sacred place on earth where God chose to dwell among His people.

When Jerusalem fell, it was not merely the destruction of stone and wood; it symbolized God’s withdrawal of His presence. This occurred exactly as He had warned long ago through Moses and Joshua on the mount of curses. Because Israel turned away from God, He turned away from them.

Lamentations reminds us vividly just how precious the relationship between Israel and God was intended to be. Thankfully, our lament today does not need to echo theirs. We belong to a Kingdom that cannot fall—the Kingdom foretold by Daniel, an everlasting Kingdom established through Christ.

If we lament at all, it will not be over the collapse of God’s Kingdom—it stands unshakable forever. Our lamentation would only come from our own tragic decision to reject citizenship in that eternal Kingdom.

May we instead choose joy, gratefully submitting to the eternal King, knowing we will never have reason to mourn over turning away from His everlasting city.


I am in the book of Genesis in my daily Bible reading. Today, I came across a beautiful passage that reminded me of the incredible sign God has lovingly placed before us.

After the flood, God set His bow—the rainbow—in the sky as a lasting symbol of His covenant never again to destroy the earth with water.

What a remarkable gift He gave us! Every time we see a rainbow stretching across the clouds, we are seeing an actual reminder, placed by God Himself, of His enduring promise.

“And God said, ‘This is the sign of the covenant that I make between me and you and every living creature that is with you, for all future generations:

I have set my bow in the cloud, and it shall be a sign of the covenant between me and the earth.

When I bring clouds over the earth and the bow is seen in the clouds,

I will remember my covenant that is between me and you and every living creature of all flesh. And the waters shall never again become a flood to destroy all flesh.

When the bow is in the clouds, I will see it and remember the everlasting covenant between God and every living creature of all flesh that is on the earth.’” (Genesis 9:12-16 ESV).

Jesus once told Thomas, “Blessed are those who have not seen and yet have believed” (John 20:29 ESV). Yet in His kindness, God has given our generation a visible and tangible sign—His bow in the clouds—to strengthen and encourage our faith.

For some, the rainbow is simply sunlight refracted through droplets of water. But for us, who know and trust in God, the prism and the droplets are simply the brushstrokes of the Almighty’s own hand, carefully crafting a sign we share with Him.

Next time we glimpse that glorious bow in the clouds, let’s pause and remember together: it is far more than beautiful—it is God’s own reminder to us of His everlasting faithfulness.


“It’s time. Go get Your bride.”

These are the words the angels in heaven are eagerly waiting to hear the Father whisper to His Son.

It’s the message that signals their return to earth alongside the King of kings, ready to fulfill their role as His reapers.

If the Father whispers this command today, what would His angels do with us just moments from now?

He’s coming back.

The Father’s command will surely come one day.

Are we ready if today is that day?


Continue your study

Read the full book free, or explore another question.

Search the writings →